Entitled relatives demand we pay for their wedding outfits or they will not attend my wedding

2021.10.21 12:48 RamenNoodles620 Entitled relatives demand we pay for their wedding outfits or they will not attend my wedding

I come from a South Asian background. In my culture, at least from the area my family is from, weddings are very much an event for the entire village. Usually the wedding is in the village itself or at a local community center. I went to my home country around 2013 and attended two weddings while there. I definitely was not formally invited and had no idea who the bride and groom were. It is nice to have so many people there and have a community feel. However, it is not as organized, there are no bands/DJs and food is usually a couple items made in very large quantities. It is fun in its own way, but very different than weddings in the US. It may be different in other parts of my home country that are more modernized, but this is what I have seen in the area of my home country I am from.
I moved to the US when I was very young (6-7) with my parents. The only family we had in the US was one aunt and her family from my mom's side and one uncle on my dad's side. Everyone else was in our home country until 3-4 years ago when the rest of my dad's siblings and their families moved to the US. Due to the distance and my dad's siblings not being nice people, my sibling and I are not close to them.
I am getting married in a couple of months. It will be more of a US style wedding. I am incorporating some things from my culture such as my outfit and part of my SOs dress and jewelry. As part of the wedding, we sent out the usual save the dates, change the date (due to the big C) and invitations. We have not heard back from relatives from my dad's side of the family.
My mom told me the reason my dad's siblings have not RSVP'd is because they expect us to pay for wedding outfits for all of my aunts and female cousins. They want outfits that will be in the $200-$300 range. I have five aunts (one is my dad's cousin) and ten female cousins. So would not be a small amount of money. My mom told them that was not happening since it would cost so much. This was not a wedding in our home country nor is it a traditional wedding in our home country's style. Plus, we did a small family only, more traditional celebration where only one of my aunts and two of my female cousins came. The rest did not. They can buy their own outfits or wear something nice they already have.
This is not a traditional wedding in our home country's style. Even if it was, that is a ridiculous ask for us to spend $3k-$4.5K on their dresses for them to come to our wedding. On top of already you know, paying for the wedding. Plus, I only invited them because of my parents. Otherwise, doubt I would have invited them at all so if they do not come, completely fine with me. Told my mom if they bring it up again, she should mention how it is also customary from where we are from for aunts and uncles to help somewhat with the wedding costs too.
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